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Review your group’s most recent event(s). Share news clippings. What went well? What could you do better next time?
- Openly discuss the group’s dynamics. Every couple weeks it’s a good idea to air out frustrations. Ask people how they feel about the group.
- At the end of the meeting give people a chance to bring up any additional concerns.
- Try regularly sharing a meal (like a potluck) before the meeting or at another time during the week. This will help everyone feel more comfortable and build community.
- The main group meeting should probably not be more than an hour, especially if you want to have committee meetings afterward.
- FINISH ON TIME! This goes hand in hand with starting on time. Starting and finishing on time reaffirms the fact that people’s time is a valuable commodity.
Play with these things to find the right mix. Do what works.
Keep the tone of the meetings positive. Bad meetings completely kill a group, especially for new members. People should not be bored, frustrated, or confused. If things get tense, tell a joke! If there seems to be a problem, be open about it and seek people’s input about how the meetings could be improved. If you’re wondering how the meeting went, ask a new member—they’re the best judges.
The basic question of the meeting should be: OK, what are we going to do?
At the end of the meeting, everyone should know:
- When and where the next meeting is. (Try to hold regular weekly meetings)
- What they’re supposed to do.
- How to get in touch with people if they want to help. (You could write names and numbers on a chalkboard, or pass out sheet with contacts.)
- Who’s going to facilitate the next meeting and how to get in touch with them.